I just need to vent, I'm not having a good year.

I don't know, but I'm just not having a good week, a two weeks. I'm getting out of work late, because we've been short handed. My friend has a boyfriend and she's grounded from the phone so I have no one to talk at the moment.

My "boyfriend" has been ignoring me for some odd reason. I think I'm just being an over worrying, clingy, I honestly don't know what I'm doing but he hasn't been saying like anything to me. He has quite complimenting me, he seems agrivated with me, he doesn't seem like he likes me anymore. I don't know but it's breaking my heart and since I've been fighting with this all week I've cried twice to him so now I'm afraid to say anything to him about it, because I'm so confused about everything, I've never been in a relationship.

But right now I am feeling low on my self esteem and everything

I miss my brother and sister. I miss the way my boyfriend was, something is not right with him right now, I miss being happy and to top it off My favorite Leopard gecko is missing still. -sigh- I know it's a stupid pity party and I'm sure there are others out there with more problems right now but yeah. I'm just really depressed lately. I'm sad I'm loosing those I love, everyone.

Everyone has a right to a pity party every now and agian,LOL. I have treated myself to my share over the years. On the bright side....no matter how rotten things seem right now give it some time and it will get better. Boys can be jerks. Even the best ones in the world can have their bad moments. Don't let it destroy your self esteem. You look at yourself and see a bright beautiful young lady and to H*** with everyone elses opinions. Never let any boy/man change how you see yourself. You hang in there and you will see that it will start to look better real soon. BIG "HUGS".

Just add chocolate. Yes, I'm serious. Maybe a really good tear-jerker movie too. Sometimes a pity party isn't complete without a good indulgence & a full-blown cry.

Your boyfriend may be backing off because you are over-emotional at the moment. Guys don't do that stuff.

You're stressed out at work. That doesn't help any, but be thankful that you have an income. I hope things look up soon.

oh yes.
pity parties are lots of fun.
but you'll need a few things first


movie: the notebook or marley and me
food: a gallon of ice cream and a BUNCH of chocolate


turn off the cell phone and ignore the home.
just take the time to let it ALL out. everything thats been bugging you, just let the tears flow. thats honestly the only way i know of getting rid of the blues.
except for target practice with peoples pictures for the targets (if you decide to do this make sure you burn the evidence afterwards)
and if you need to vent. we're here for you. i promise ill be here anyway. and it looks like these other guys will be too.
*hugs* feel better!!!!

Hi

Well done for haveing a job fisrt off

Men our age get what i call Male PMS sum times and they go into there own little world but in a few weeks they normally snap out of it

im sure your little gecko will pop up somewhere just keep on lookin you never know he might end up the the sink u never know lol.

hope your feeelin better soon sumtimes life does seem heavy on your shoulder and remember your never to old to cry

I couldn't agree more with everyone that has replied.
::Lots of hugs for you::

Remember, we're all here if you need someone to talk to. =)

You are 17 and this is your first relationship... Trust me, you will have many more... At 17, boys are about as mature as a 13 year old... Seriously... I know dudes in their 20's who would rather play gears of war than to hang out with their girlfriends... Lame!!!

You have plenty of time to settle down with a significant other... Now might not be the time for you to get serious with a dude... You need to experience other relationships and mature to figure out what you want and need out of the man you will be with... At 33 years old, I still do not know what I want but I do know exactly what I do not want...

Besides, you are the girl, you are the one who should be doing the heartbreaking... LOL

Told you guys stuck, j/k

Something you need to know about young guys is that they're extremely moody and bi-polar half the time. When you met a guy and start a relationship they're sweet as can be then they see they already have you and push you aside. Don't sweat it. Your suppose to let them sweat. lol. Your 17 it's time for fun and school not relationships, heart ache and worrying. This mood will pass soon and you'll be fine.

Yeah right now he has a lot going on his life and he is really mature but I'm pretty sure he's just depressed as about Getting in trouble at work and the fact he's been sick a lot and the doctor told him monday if he doesn't shape up he's going to be one of those guys whose has a heartattack at 25 but I don't mind him playing video games at all because I enjoy watching ( I know weird) but I just miss talking to him for over an hour, finishing each others sentences, man when we hang out we are so much alike, but his previous relationship his girlfriend was overly clingy being over everyday literally and she was mean to him, and his dad is a drunk so he's basically on his own, he buys his own food, own clothes, car, school and he just got done with finals and he is shooting to go into an art school in California that the only way he could get in is by paying for it himself, in April of last year he lost one of his best friends and he didn't even get to say bye and the year before that he lost his grandma and he's moving in with his mom whose boyfriend hates him and assumes he drinks and does drugs but he does none of this, but I still am being selfish and miss him, I miss how we were now it seems he has no time to care and I don't want to be selfish of his dreams and I want him to be happy and suceed so I need to not focus on me so much and just be his "friend" right now because he may feel bad he's to tired to be the boyfriend he wants to be...... But he's really the sweetest most caring guy and fun guy and dork and sarcastic amazing guy and I think What it is, is he's coming out of the crush stage and feels no need to tell me night and day how beautiful to him I am or how much he likes me but it's still hard and I miss him so much

Also I'm homeschooled except for tech school and I'm failing at both not by choice at all :/


Oh I saw marley and me couple weeks ago hate it it reminded me when I put my dog down -is at work and break is over so no crying-

Trust me when i say boys that age & up for quite awhile are extremely immature when it comes to relationships. I'm 25 & can be very mature when it comes to my daughter & things when i feel the need to be, but i admit i'm about as childish as it gets with relationships since me & the ex broke up a few years ago. I swear some of us have relationship ADD, it's not that we really have a problem with the girl.....we're just pricks & can be fickle sometimes. Personally, I tend to be the type that just gets bored easily or if i'm just not having a good week or something i'll take it out on everyone around me. At 17, you will have many more good/bad relationships over your lifetime. You will fall in & out of love like it was going out of style. To sum up what i'm saying, don't sweat it too much....it'll be fine whether he comes around or not. Hell, there's probly some other guy that has a secret crush on you & you don't even know it....happens all the time.

Don't worry about it being a pity party, we all go through this type of stuff and sometime the only thing you can do is vent....it actually does seem to help. Don't let yourself trivialize your problems either, what's important to you is exactly that....important to you, and that's all that matters really.

You're not alone out there either, i'm manic as hell myself so some days i can be ontop of the world & then the next i'm lower than a snakes butthole. The pendulum swings both ways so soon enough you'll be back ontop

metaldad904 said:

Trust me when i say boys that age & up for quite awhile are extremely immature when it comes to relationships. I'm 25 & can be very mature when it comes to my daughter & things when i feel the need to be, but i admit i'm about as childish as it gets with relationships since me & the ex broke up a few years ago. I swear some of us have relationship ADD, it's not that we really have a problem with the girl.....we're just pricks & can be fickle sometimes. Personally, I tend to be the type that just gets bored easily or if i'm just not having a good week or something i'll take it out on everyone around me. At 17, you will have many more good/bad relationships over your lifetime. You will fall in & out of love like it was going out of style. To sum up what i'm saying, don't sweat it too much....it'll be fine whether he comes around or not. Hell, there's probly some other guy that has a secret crush on you & you don't even know it....happens all the time.

Don't worry about it being a pity party, we all go through this type of stuff and sometime the only thing you can do is vent....it actually does seem to help. Don't let yourself trivialize your problems either, what's important to you is exactly that....important to you, and that's all that matters really.

You're not alone out there either, i'm manic as hell myself so some days i can be ontop of the world & then the next i'm lower than a snakes butthole. The pendulum swings both ways so soon enough you'll be back ontop

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Boys will be boys, right!?

Gregg says the men start to grow up in their late 20's early 30's. So I think that's what I'm going to be reaching for from now on :main_laugh:

LizMarie said:

Boys will be boys, right!?

Gregg says the men start to grow up in their late 20's early 30's. So I think that's what I'm going to be reaching for from now on :main_laugh:

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Pretty much! lol. I think it's an inate need to cling to our childhood for dear life & once we hit a certain age we finally give up on that & grow up. Hell, in my head i still want to be in a heavy metal band regardless of the fact that it's never going to happen. I hate the fact that i'm getting older, i'm still freaking out of the prospect of turning 26 in 4 months & officially being in my "late twenties".