I have three afts now. The two females will eat just fine. I give them dubias and they're gone within minutes. The male is being a pain. What I've noticed is that he doesn't even look at the ground or pay attention. He looked at the dubias once when they were moving, but that's it. He ate one mealworm and then no more. I tried supers. He ate two, but that was hand fed. He won't eat them on his own. Any suggestions? He's been here a few weeks now. Will he start eating them on his own when he's hungry enough? I do not want crickets here at all.