So I was re-checking the sex of the 3 "females" that live together after finding eggs. Paisley is showing hemipenes and the "v" is super noticeable. I've checked before and he looked like a female otherwise I wouldn't have had him living with females. Lester was noticeably a male when I got him and he was smaller than Paisley who still looked like a female. I feel dumb, but at least I got it figured out. Also, I now know it's for sure Melody who laid the eggs because I can see more in her belly. I thought it was her because she was living with a male before I got her anyway. The only thing I'm glad about is now I know the genetics and it's not an unknown male. Now just trying to decide if I should re-name him since Paisley is kind of girly.