ok so now that we have determined she is for sure gravid is there a way by looking at her about how far out she is from laying want to be sure i am home
1-2 weeks, mine tend to lay during lunar cycles, but that's just my observation. She'll probably lay them at night, let her bury them in the substrate, and then retrieve them after. Don't disturb immediately after laying, it could stress her, especially if it's her first time. If she lays outside of her laybox, they may not be fertile, or she may just not be sure of what to do.