BettaDragon
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I need to rant about something because I need help. My mom has no idea how to help me because she never in her life had this problem in High School.
One of my best friend, Stephanie, has this mother that is just plain psychotic. When she divorced Stephanie's dad, she made both Steph and her sister say that he hit them in court so she could get full custody and move to NJ. They both went to my school for a while but when their mother decided she didn't want them in a school because some people she didn't like had a daughter in school, she moved them into a bad school and then a private catholic school. Her mother often sent her to sleep over at my house simply because she was sick of her. As of this summer things have been getting out of control with Steph's mother and at times her sister. Steph specifically said she didn't want a birthday party, however her mother and sister took it upon themselves to plan a surprise one for her. Her sister started talking to me online when she knew I was talking to Steph on the phone. her sister randomly asked for my address without telling me why. Of course I asked Steph on the phone why her sister was asking for my address. When I found out it was for an invitation I simply said,"Oh that's why." Steph asked why, I said, "I can't tell you." She said, "It doesn't matter I'm furious with her at the moment." I said, "Be nice because she's doing something good for you." I told the sister this whole conversation. That whole conversation could have been avoided if the sister simply told me what she was planning before asking for my address. A couple weeks later I get this incredibly rude and long email from both the sister and the mother pretty much giving a page long list of synonyms for idiot saying I'm every one of them because I somehow let Steph know about her party, which I didn't and if that conversation somehow tipped her off in anyway (which I later found out it didn't in anyway and she still had no clue), it was her sister's fault for not telling me why she needed my address before she asked for it. It really bothered me then that a friend's mother would stoop so low and act as immature as that to send a list of synonyms for the word idiot. So I've been slowly having less contact with Steph because I have "boycotted" her mother and sister. Steph was texting me with her phone that her mother got her just for texting and she wanted to see a pic of my new gecko. She told me to email it to her. Well apparently she used her mom's computer to check her email which made her mom furious. Now her mom keeps sending me insulting emails and has said she's not allowed to talk to me ever again for some reason. I'm really wondering what I should do because this woman is making her daughter's life hell and is harassing me now for no good reason. Just to give an idea of how even more insane this woman is, she has told Steph she is to keep a keyboard logger on her computer even when she goes to college so her mother can see everything she does. I'm really concerned for Steph. I have contact info for her father but I'm afraid to contact him because the last time Steph tried to call him her mom took her to the hospital and said she tried to commit suicide and got her put on suicide watch so she couldn't call her dad. I really feel like I need to do something but I don't know what I can do.
One of my best friend, Stephanie, has this mother that is just plain psychotic. When she divorced Stephanie's dad, she made both Steph and her sister say that he hit them in court so she could get full custody and move to NJ. They both went to my school for a while but when their mother decided she didn't want them in a school because some people she didn't like had a daughter in school, she moved them into a bad school and then a private catholic school. Her mother often sent her to sleep over at my house simply because she was sick of her. As of this summer things have been getting out of control with Steph's mother and at times her sister. Steph specifically said she didn't want a birthday party, however her mother and sister took it upon themselves to plan a surprise one for her. Her sister started talking to me online when she knew I was talking to Steph on the phone. her sister randomly asked for my address without telling me why. Of course I asked Steph on the phone why her sister was asking for my address. When I found out it was for an invitation I simply said,"Oh that's why." Steph asked why, I said, "I can't tell you." She said, "It doesn't matter I'm furious with her at the moment." I said, "Be nice because she's doing something good for you." I told the sister this whole conversation. That whole conversation could have been avoided if the sister simply told me what she was planning before asking for my address. A couple weeks later I get this incredibly rude and long email from both the sister and the mother pretty much giving a page long list of synonyms for idiot saying I'm every one of them because I somehow let Steph know about her party, which I didn't and if that conversation somehow tipped her off in anyway (which I later found out it didn't in anyway and she still had no clue), it was her sister's fault for not telling me why she needed my address before she asked for it. It really bothered me then that a friend's mother would stoop so low and act as immature as that to send a list of synonyms for the word idiot. So I've been slowly having less contact with Steph because I have "boycotted" her mother and sister. Steph was texting me with her phone that her mother got her just for texting and she wanted to see a pic of my new gecko. She told me to email it to her. Well apparently she used her mom's computer to check her email which made her mom furious. Now her mom keeps sending me insulting emails and has said she's not allowed to talk to me ever again for some reason. I'm really wondering what I should do because this woman is making her daughter's life hell and is harassing me now for no good reason. Just to give an idea of how even more insane this woman is, she has told Steph she is to keep a keyboard logger on her computer even when she goes to college so her mother can see everything she does. I'm really concerned for Steph. I have contact info for her father but I'm afraid to contact him because the last time Steph tried to call him her mom took her to the hospital and said she tried to commit suicide and got her put on suicide watch so she couldn't call her dad. I really feel like I need to do something but I don't know what I can do.
