My girlfriend is driving me crazy!

[AllGeckos]

I don't know whats going on with this girl. To make a long story short...
We have been dating for a couple months now, and I really care about her.(you know that warm fuzzy feeling) We met at work and due to the fact that I was her boss, we both quit. She has since got a new job and started school at the same time. I know this is a lot and overwhelming for her, I understand that. Tonight I sent her a text saying hi, she responds right back saying now you care. I don't understand? (I feel like I should be smoking crack) I sent back to her what? I called her and sent more text asking whats going on this drives me f##ing crazy I think she cheating on me, not based off anything except her weird and randon phone behavior. but thats all just wanted to get that off!

 

[fallen_angel]

All I know is that when a girl says, "now you care" it usually means that she came to you for support or something earlier, and you didn't give her attention or help or whatever, and she's still upset about it. But yeah, I don't really know.. Good luck!

 

[Kimjorg]

I agree...there must've been something else that triggered that behavior. She probably was looking for encouragment or some act that you care earlier on in the week, when she didnt get it she just assumed you didnt care. Just just assume that she is cheating on you because her behavior changes. Great relationships can be destroyed by the slightest thought of cheating when in all reality the other person is crazy about them and would never never cheat on them. Just be careful before you throw such brave assumptions out there and have your facts straight. Good Luck, keep us updated!

 

[Euphoric]

Its prob from not taking a lot of initiative to say hello first or calling her first...
Maybe not taking enough time out for her and maybe complimenting her more.
But really, fallen angel is right.

Sometimes guys can overlook how stressed a girl really is.