Fuel to the Fire

[goReptiles]

So, like this little 16, wait now 17, year old girl is spreading rumors about my boyfriend to all her little friends. And, I thought I was the only one getting it, but now he's getting it too. It's lovely. It really is. Apparently, he gave her a hereditary virus, and I should get checked. Now, how do you give someone something that is hereditary? What's the point in spreading rumors about someone, especially rumors that can't be true. I just don't understand. There's not the littlest bit of honesty in her lies. But, of course, I can't keep out of it. And had to send a message to the little girl harassing my boyfriend. I mean someone should explain to her that the virus that she's accusing my boyfriend of giving her isn't passes from one person to another via intercourse, but birth! That I'm clean, so if by some slim chance it can be passed, it wasn't from him. Why is it that girls like to cause so much drama? I mean I'm a girl, but omg! This is ridiculous! I mean every day I check my mail, there's something new about how my boyfriend ruined this girl's life. That he was her best friend and they talked for hours on end, when if I remember he would always ignore her calls and avoid her. I remember several occassions being on the phone with him and he'd be like "ugh --- calling again" and would ignore the call... And, a few minutes later, she'd call again, and again, and so on, till he would flip over and be right back in a minute. Now I understand, that a person can't possibly be on the phone with another person 24/7, but come on... These children keep backing themselves in a corner contradicting themselves. One day the sky is blue, and the next day the sky has never been blue. Come on! So I'm going to start adding more fuel to the fire, not being sympathetic to their lies. Not being sweet and concerned, but fight back. This has GOT to stop. It's ridiculous! ... ... ...

 

[Lyndsey]

So did they date, or is she like stalking him?

What a psycho lol

 

[BluGnat]

Sounds similar to what my 12 year old son is going through - he's got one girl calling him *constantly* - to the point that he called our cell carrier to see if there's a way to block numbers either through the cell service or via the phone settings. There's not (other than for texts). She was telling the girl he LIKES that he was hanging out at her house with her all the time - which is completely untrue, but upset the girl he likes. I keep asking him if he wants me to call her parents...I'm tempted...What is it with people these days? Oh, I sound old...

Good luck with your situation, and the "hereditary" virus stories.

 

[goReptiles]

they never dated, sexually touched, or anything. it's rather ridiculous. she had a huge crush on him. and takes parts of true life stories and inputs herself and changes it up a little. For example, she told me about a time they were playing video games and he was yelling at her for sucking at it when he had the cheats right there, and every word she mimicked from the story was the same he told his best friend one day (i was there that day with them). but instead of troy it was her. childish games. she's going to get someone hurt. she's trying to get inbetween us, and at this point, it's really not that hard. but uncalled for.

heather- it sounds very similar. child games right? you'd think at 17, people would grow up some. your son's 12, and this little girl is doing the same thing.

 

[Lyndsey]

they never dated, sexually touched, or anything. it's rather ridiculous. she had a huge crush on him. and takes parts of true life stories and inputs herself and changes it up a little. For example, she told me about a time they were playing video games and he was yelling at her for sucking at it when he had the cheats right there, and every word she mimicked from the story was the same he told his best friend one day (i was there that day with them). but instead of troy it was her. childish games. she's going to get someone hurt. she's trying to get inbetween us, and at this point, it's really not that hard. but uncalled for.

heather- it sounds very similar. child games right? you'd think at 17, people would grow up some. your son's 12, and this little girl is doing the same thing.

If you know any girls her age, have them smack her around a bit. I'm sure she'll leave you guys alone :main_yes: . Too bad she's underage so you can't touch her lol