goReptiles
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So yea.. I've posted some of my turmoil lately. Well, I broke once again today...
Here's a list of all that's happened in the past 2.5 months.
1. Pit puppy was stolen
2. Boyfriend's SOB friend (Matt) came back into out lives, making him harder to reach and more influenced to trouble (and trust me he really doesn't need the influencing)
3. Matt needed money. He wrote me a check for 50$. They pulled it out of my account. By the time I was able to deposit the check, it bounced bc they were writting a bunch of bad checks.
4. I got cash from matt, to make up for it, but when my boyfriend kicked him out a second time, he wanted it back.
5.The check bounced after that,but at first looked as though it cleared, so forgetting that he already took the cash back, convinced my boyfriend to write a check on my account for the 50 bucks.
6. Because that was SO easy, a few more checks were written (one i caught before it was cashed).
7. Again, Matt being MY problem, a supposid cashiers check for 40 bucks was going to be deposited in my account if i gave my boyfriend my card to pull it out, so that Matt could FINALLY be gone... He showed up at the house without me knowing, and I got pissed, so threw it at him.
8.. The original check from Matt, bounced plus a processing fee was charged to the account. After having fraud already on the account, the then, 56.50 was over drawn on the account.
9. Trying to get that fixed, I notice that on another account I am now overdrawn $300+. I call my boyfriend's grandmother, and she said he wasn't home from the night before. Gave me the number of a detective, which I called.
10. Eventually finding out at 11 am, that he supposidly didn't know about the charges, checked his wallet to find my sleeve but no card.
11. So, where he went to a friend's house, another SOB, the card went missing and he supposidly didn't know about it. Over 500$ were written on the account, and as mentioned I was give or take 300$ in the hole.
12. Now this has costed over 600$ with bank charges bc the money was pulled out at gas station ATMs and over drawn fees.
13. One police report down, and another to go sense the card was stolen in a neighboring city.
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14. Here's the kicker. I may not get any of the money back that was charged to the account. I may only get any bank processing feeds back.. So woohoo a hole 90 bucks... Bc my boyfriend knew my pin number, I am then responsible for it, unless I prosecute.... HECK YEA I'M PROSECUTING!!!
I don't know how in Hades the guy got the pin number to pull out money, and I've been told not to ask my boyfriend, so he can't make up any stories, if he was somehow involved. My boyfriend wants to make a few calls to take care of Brad (the second SOB). I told him no let the police do what they can, then he has full permission to take care of it.
No one knows Brad's last name or where he lives, just the address of his friend (the guy where my card was taken). I have all the places and exact times as to when the card was stolen, so I'm taking that to the other city with my first police report. I can say my boyfriend either covered is butt really well, or he's telling the truth. I say that because after the card was placed on hold, the guy tried to pull out more money, noted by the bank, of course....
But of all the times the bank didn't catch anything, they didn't catch this guy pulling out money every two hours from my account... That pisses me off... I've heard of times where my bank has called my parents to verify a charge that was like one dollar, but when 160 (plus 2$ atm charge before the 1.75 bank charge), plus 80,60,80,etc. was pulled out every two hours, that didn't ring a bell...
On top of that my relationship has been drastically falling down a steep hill for two weeks now. I was promised once Matt was gone (which he finally is), things would be better, but let's say I haven't talked to him for more than 30 minutes in two days. If someone says I'm busy I'll call you when I'm done, yet falls asleep; wouldn't it make sense to call that person as soon as you wake up? Well, I think so anyway...
Whatever... I give up...
OOOOO!!! I forgot... The racks that I paid for a month and a half ago, I FINALLY got the other day, and opened today... Yea, well... They're not heated. I went back to the website, and saw in small print heat can be added. I was talking to someone a while ago and was told it was already added, so I didn't think to tell the guy to add heat... Well there goes another 285 bucks that I can't use... I'm hoping that I can send this one back and have another one made, but I don't want to wait ANOTHER month and a half. I was told I'd have it by end of February; at the end of February, I was told it will be shipped out by the end of February. Then I was told by Friday or Monday of the beginning of March, but it wasn't send till this past week.
I broke. My mom was like it's ok. No the HECK it's not! I'm fed up with all this. No money. No puppy. Barely a boyfriend. No life. No racks. I've been sitting in bed for close to 4 hours now, sleeping and thinking...
Here's a list of all that's happened in the past 2.5 months.
1. Pit puppy was stolen
2. Boyfriend's SOB friend (Matt) came back into out lives, making him harder to reach and more influenced to trouble (and trust me he really doesn't need the influencing)
3. Matt needed money. He wrote me a check for 50$. They pulled it out of my account. By the time I was able to deposit the check, it bounced bc they were writting a bunch of bad checks.
4. I got cash from matt, to make up for it, but when my boyfriend kicked him out a second time, he wanted it back.
5.The check bounced after that,but at first looked as though it cleared, so forgetting that he already took the cash back, convinced my boyfriend to write a check on my account for the 50 bucks.
6. Because that was SO easy, a few more checks were written (one i caught before it was cashed).
7. Again, Matt being MY problem, a supposid cashiers check for 40 bucks was going to be deposited in my account if i gave my boyfriend my card to pull it out, so that Matt could FINALLY be gone... He showed up at the house without me knowing, and I got pissed, so threw it at him.
8.. The original check from Matt, bounced plus a processing fee was charged to the account. After having fraud already on the account, the then, 56.50 was over drawn on the account.
9. Trying to get that fixed, I notice that on another account I am now overdrawn $300+. I call my boyfriend's grandmother, and she said he wasn't home from the night before. Gave me the number of a detective, which I called.
10. Eventually finding out at 11 am, that he supposidly didn't know about the charges, checked his wallet to find my sleeve but no card.
11. So, where he went to a friend's house, another SOB, the card went missing and he supposidly didn't know about it. Over 500$ were written on the account, and as mentioned I was give or take 300$ in the hole.
12. Now this has costed over 600$ with bank charges bc the money was pulled out at gas station ATMs and over drawn fees.
13. One police report down, and another to go sense the card was stolen in a neighboring city.
...
14. Here's the kicker. I may not get any of the money back that was charged to the account. I may only get any bank processing feeds back.. So woohoo a hole 90 bucks... Bc my boyfriend knew my pin number, I am then responsible for it, unless I prosecute.... HECK YEA I'M PROSECUTING!!!
I don't know how in Hades the guy got the pin number to pull out money, and I've been told not to ask my boyfriend, so he can't make up any stories, if he was somehow involved. My boyfriend wants to make a few calls to take care of Brad (the second SOB). I told him no let the police do what they can, then he has full permission to take care of it.
No one knows Brad's last name or where he lives, just the address of his friend (the guy where my card was taken). I have all the places and exact times as to when the card was stolen, so I'm taking that to the other city with my first police report. I can say my boyfriend either covered is butt really well, or he's telling the truth. I say that because after the card was placed on hold, the guy tried to pull out more money, noted by the bank, of course....
But of all the times the bank didn't catch anything, they didn't catch this guy pulling out money every two hours from my account... That pisses me off... I've heard of times where my bank has called my parents to verify a charge that was like one dollar, but when 160 (plus 2$ atm charge before the 1.75 bank charge), plus 80,60,80,etc. was pulled out every two hours, that didn't ring a bell...
On top of that my relationship has been drastically falling down a steep hill for two weeks now. I was promised once Matt was gone (which he finally is), things would be better, but let's say I haven't talked to him for more than 30 minutes in two days. If someone says I'm busy I'll call you when I'm done, yet falls asleep; wouldn't it make sense to call that person as soon as you wake up? Well, I think so anyway...
Whatever... I give up...
OOOOO!!! I forgot... The racks that I paid for a month and a half ago, I FINALLY got the other day, and opened today... Yea, well... They're not heated. I went back to the website, and saw in small print heat can be added. I was talking to someone a while ago and was told it was already added, so I didn't think to tell the guy to add heat... Well there goes another 285 bucks that I can't use... I'm hoping that I can send this one back and have another one made, but I don't want to wait ANOTHER month and a half. I was told I'd have it by end of February; at the end of February, I was told it will be shipped out by the end of February. Then I was told by Friday or Monday of the beginning of March, but it wasn't send till this past week.
I broke. My mom was like it's ok. No the HECK it's not! I'm fed up with all this. No money. No puppy. Barely a boyfriend. No life. No racks. I've been sitting in bed for close to 4 hours now, sleeping and thinking...
