To my fellow forum members

bebetee

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I am not sure where to put this post ..but hopefully someone will see it and understand.

I first off want to say sorry to anyone who I may have disturbed in the forums, when me and another forum member had got into a little back and fourth messaging I know that lots of you like to see the most recent post but because of this thing going on with this person ..many where not able to see the most recent post because ours kept posting up, and I want to apologize because I now know that it got in the way or annoyed most of you. I just want you guys to know that I was not trying to cause any problems for anyone here ..and I might be a very straight forward and blunt but I don't mean any harm, they way I tend to help people is to give them constructive criticism but I guess that offends some people.

I don't want to lose my account here nor do want to lose the respect of all of you. We are all here for the same purpose ..to share our interest in reptiles. So again I say sorry and I hope you all forgive me for the disturbance in the forums.
 
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maggiee22195

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I am not sure where to put this post ..but hopefully someone will see it and understand.

I first off want to say sorry to anyone who I may have disturbed in the forums, when me and another forum member had got into a little back and fourth messaging I know that lots of you like to see the most recent post but because of this thing going on with this person ..many where not able to see the most recent post because ours kept posting up, and I want to apologize because I now know that it got in the way or annoyed most of you. I just want you guys to know that I was not trying to cause any problems for anyone here ..and I might be a very straight forward and blunt but I don't mean any harm, they way I tend to help people is to give them constructive criticism but I guess that offends some people.

I don't want to lose my account here nor do want to lose the respect of all of you. We are all here for the same purpose ..to share our interest in reptiles. So again I say sorry and I hope you all forgive me for the disturbance in the forums.

I would also like to apologize. And Yes I am the 'other person'. I am truly sorry that I have caused many of you displeasure with me. I will not do it again. And Bebetee, I am sorry that this had to be the second time we fought. I hope that you will please accept my sincere apology. I would like us to move on and not bring up the past again.
And to EVERY SINGLE forum member, please forgive me. I know that I have made a terrible first impression but I, from here on out, am changing and will accept nice and helpful criticism. And Bebetee, once again, I feel bad for everything that has happened and I apologize to you again.
Thanks to you all!
Good luck to you on your wonderful journey of herping!
 

Khrysty

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Christina, I've seen other threads you've been in and I really appreciate your input. I'm sure other members feel the same. And Maggie, you haven't been here long, but you're welcome here just like everyone else.

This is a community of people from very different backgrounds. Our one common interest binds us together, but sometimes we do get into it with each other. All of us have at some point or another, and that's okay. Most of us don't hold grudges. But in the future, guys, (and I know you know this), take little spats and such to PMs. They're there so that you can have private discussions that don't involve the entirety of the forums.

Don't mean to sound like anyone's mommy, just saying it might save us all from future situations like that.

And kudos, guys, for stepping up and apologizing. Not a lot of people do.
 

maggiee22195

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Christina, I've seen other threads you've been in and I really appreciate your input. I'm sure other members feel the same. And Maggie, you haven't been here long, but you're welcome here just like everyone else.

This is a community of people from very different backgrounds. Our one common interest binds us together, but sometimes we do get into it with each other. All of us have at some point or another, and that's okay. Most of us don't hold grudges. But in the future, guys, (and I know you know this), take little spats and such to PMs. They're there so that you can have private discussions that don't involve the entirety of the forums.

Don't mean to sound like anyone's mommy, just saying it might save us all from future situations like that.

And kudos, guys, for stepping up and apologizing. Not a lot of people do.

Thanks! Thats all I want. And I know that it is all Christina wants also. And thank you for welcoming me here Khrysty. I plan to definitely take your advice instead of arguing on the forum and clogging it up! :)
 

Dog Shrink

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I believe I mentioned about taking the bickering privately several bickering messages ago for you maggie. Hopefully this will be the start of a new day for both of yas and everyone gets along. Constructive criticism is hard to take but it does help in the long run. No one likes to hear when they're wrong, but if in the long run it saves a lot of grief then it is ultimately worth it. It was very big for both of you to stand up and accept your fault, so moving forward... a little more logical thinking and a little less emotional involvement and I think everything should be great.
 

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