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BluGnat

Opus
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Location
Westminster, Colorado
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Wishing you lots and lots of strength. And Happy Valentines Day from someone who IS interested in what you do and loves to see the photos of your beautiful geckos.
 
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217
Location
beloit,wi
Sorry about your crappy V-day.
Every relationship has it's ups and downs, but when the downs become more than the ups then it's time to rethink your relationship. Sometimes change is the only way. This is not an easy discission to make, but it is one you need to think hard about. I hope things get better for you.

Big hugs,
Scott
 
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LadyGecko

Guest
Felicia-I TOTALLY understand
I have a somewhat similar situation
Happy Valentine's Day !!

Sandy
 

marula

New Member
Messages
1,884
Location
moved from texas to italy
felicia..dont put your attention in him...you have something more important thing...
TODAY A VALENTINE GECKO BORN FOR YOU! HAPPY VALENTINE GECKO! we whant pics of him...and hold this gecko for you...put him in a special tank in the center fo your living room...and if him say something, you only need to reply: "sorry my sweety dear lover..but i have more attention from my valentine geckos that from you" ;)
 

RaiQuee

Stripes are in!
Messages
685
Location
Big Bend, WI
Sorry Felicia that your significant other is not the best. I understand where your coming from with the cigs and drinking problems. If me and Ed don't patch things up, I really don't think I could date someone who smokes again, or drinks more than "casual/socially"

My v-day was a lot better than I expected, mainly because I got to eat the first meal of my day with one of my all time favorite people (Letskey) and I got a flower and lots of hugs from employees :)
 

BalloonzForU

New Member
Messages
7,573
Location
Grand Blanc, MI
Thank you Everyone!

This has been building and building for many years. I've only been content to stay for my kids. I've just recently realized that there is a point where I have to do something to make myself happy. Desire', I wasn't complaining about the smoking as I am currently a smoker, and want desperately to quit, just thought it should be in the ad in case some one actually was willing to buy him, that they know. ;) I have to say I have no doubt the man loves me, he just doesn't know how to show it in a way a woman cares about, or respect the love she shows him. He wasn't always like this or I would have never fell in love with him. As his company grew larger, and promisees to down size because it was taking it's toll on us, and just telling me back in Dec. that he's taking over yet more territory, I've realized that power seems to be his only love in his life he is willing to work on. It's always been honey this is for you, but what he never understood, the money isn't what I loved.
 

Jeanne

Abbie's Human
Messages
4,090
Location
Tyngsboro, MA
marula said:
felicia..dont put your attention in him...you have something more important thing...
TODAY A VALENTINE GECKO BORN FOR YOU! HAPPY VALENTINE GECKO! we whant pics of him...and hold this gecko for you...put him in a special tank in the center fo your living room...and if him say something, you only need to reply: "sorry my sweety dear lover..but i have more attention from my valentine geckos that from you" ;)

:main_thumbsup:
 

Jeremy Letkey

Jaded by reality!!
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1,981
Location
outta my freakin mind
Felicia, I wish I was closer to take you out to breakfast. :D


I know it seems pointless but maybe it is time to have an adult conversation with him. Sit his but down and tell him what you expect from him. If he can't give you what you need, then maybe it's time to move on. :(
 

Franks_Geckos

Leopard Gecko Addict
Messages
1,208
Location
NJ
I am sure most people here have little use for a used 57 year old male....lol, but I would be willing to bet that the single men would definitely be interested in an attractive 35 year old female that is into geckos and owns her own business.

Just a hunch.....
 

BalloonzForU

New Member
Messages
7,573
Location
Grand Blanc, MI
Thank you, Jeremy, Frank, Shanti!! Kelli, thanks for my phone HUG!! It was great to talk with someone that cares, and can share in my joy of these amazing animals.

You guys have all been great. Thank you for the support, I love you guys!!!
 
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becky2731

Guest
Felicia, You deserve so much better. More importantly you deserve to be completely happy. I hope everything works out for you, with or without his sorry butt:p . On a happier note: how are your red eyed little darlings?
 

John N

JCN Reptiles
Messages
444
Location
Lancaster, PA
Does he shovel the snow? If he does, I'll pay a dollar for him...

With the all kidding aside, I hope things will work out for you Felicia, I truly do... Like Becky said, you deserve to be happy.
 

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