For Sale...

[Sandra]

I have to say I have no doubt the man loves me, he just doesn't know how to show it in a way a woman cares about, or respect the love she shows him.

Sometimes loving each other is not enough to keep the relationship going, no matter how intense the love is. From my experience, in most cases it is impossible to change someone's personality whatever they say.

He may say that he is doing that for you, but I'm sure that you have told many times that you want his company, not his money. If that's the case, saying that he is doing that for you is only a excuse.

As Jeremy said, it's time to have an adult conversation. If that doesn't result, you will have to make a decision... What does make you less unhappy, if staying with that man although he doesn't pay attention to you or just separate... I wouldn't think about the kids in this situation, because the first thing is your happines... Think that, although this may affect them for some time, staying with that man will decide your whole life. I'm sure they will eventually understand.

Oh, and happy Valentine's gecko! I guess the name of this hatchling is already decided, lol!

 

[BalloonzForU]

Thank you, Sandra. Yes Valentino or Valentina.

 

[BalloonzForU]

Well after last night I'd have to say he hit a new low.

Kelli called me to let me know Jeanne (USAGeckos) was poss going to get stuck in Cleveland on her way to Dallas for the show, and asked if Jeanne could stay here with me. No problem at all, I would love to have Jeanne come visit. Well sure enough later I call Jeanne and she had missed her flight and was still waiting for her bag, here in Cleveland. I told him what was going ahead and that I was going to pick up Jeanne and bring her back to our house. He had a fit, threw a temper tantrum and all. Instead of fighting I gave in, and was going to help Jeanne and get her a hotel to stay in. However things turned out awesome for Jeanne after the 5th attempt to get someone to locate her bag. This nice young man actually got off his butt and went into the cargo area to track the bag, to find out that it was on the next flight leaving in about 30 or so min. We fallowed him up to the ticket counter to see if Jeanne could also get on that flight. At first it was going to be standby, but by the time they did what they needed to do to get her on standby, she had a seat!!! Yay she was going to make it....but boo hoo we didn't get to go out to dinner. I'm just happy she was able to get to Dallas.

 

[StinaKSU]

......god forbid you try to do smt nice for someone! ....that's just lovely.... I'm sorry Fe!

 

[KiKi]

i guess you cant teach an old dog man new tricks, you deserve better

 

[brandy101010]

What an A$$! I'm sorry you have to put up with that crap!

 

[BalloonzForU]

i guess you cant teach an old dog man new tricks, you deserve better

Old Dog is right!!!

 

[Jeanne]

Well after last night I'd have to say he hit a new low.

Kelli called me to let me know Jeanne (USAGeckos) was poss going to get stuck in Cleveland on her way to Dallas for the show, and asked if Jeanne could stay here with me. No problem at all, I would love to have Jeanne come visit. Well sure enough later I call Jeanne and she had missed her flight and was still waiting for her bag, here in Cleveland. I told him what was going ahead and that I was going to pick up Jeanne and bring her back to our house. He had a fit, threw a temper tantrum and all. Instead of fighting I gave in, and was going to help Jeanne and get her a hotel to stay in. However things turned out awesome for Jeanne after the 5th attempt to get someone to locate her bag. This nice young man actually got off his butt and went into the cargo area to track the bag, to find out that it was on the next flight leaving in about 30 or so min. We fallowed him up to the ticket counter to see if Jeanne could also get on that flight. At first it was going to be standby, but by the time they did what they needed to do to get her on standby, she had a seat!!! Yay she was going to make it....but boo hoo we didn't get to go out to dinner. I'm just happy she was able to get to Dallas.

Felicia.....my knight is shining armor! I can't thank you enough for coming down to the airport (and staying with me for about 2 hours so I wouldn't have to be alone...You ROCK!) Yes, your husband is a big 'ole jerk :main_angry: Although that night was completely HORRIBLE, you were my silver lining, I was so glad I got to meet you and Zach Attack

It is now 7:35 pm, and I am going on about 9-10 hours sleep total for the past 3 nights, so, I will be making another post about the Texas trip probably tomorrow, right now I am having a hard time keeping from falling flat on my face......

One thing, you know how they said my luggage was on the flight with me, well, it wasn't, I got to Dallas and alas, no luggage, I almost gave in the towel, but, there was a guy there that helped me out. It turns out, it was actually on the Saturday morning flight to Dallas via Houston, which was one of the many twists and turns in my Friday horror story. So, I didn't end up getting my luggage until Saturday around 5:00 PM

But, that's ok, because other than that, the weekend was AWESOME!!!! I had so much fun, and many pictures to prove it

 

[BalloonzForU]

Jeanne, I'm so glad you made it to Dallas. Who needs lugage when you've got all those great people to visit? I wish I could have been there with you guys.

It was great seeing you for a short time, wish it could have been longer. But remember there is always Daytona or maybe Tinley! Care for a road trip? I love to drive!

 

[Ian S.]

I'm a little late here but,
Jeanne that sucks about your luggage! Airports are just out of controll w/ their heads up their asses. I read a recent study that showed 58% of people are loosing their luggage nation wide.

Felicia,
So sorry to hear about your situation at home. Your happiness is the key w/ or without him.I love seeing those awesome leos you post. Keep smiling girl and do whats right for you. Although it's not always easy. I hope your situation gets better.:main_thumbsup:

 

[BalloonzForU]

Thank you, Ian. Funny thing is the leo I named after "HIM" just drew blood, and she's never been a mean girl. I was checking to see if she's ovulating yet, and she was not happy with me, and got me pretty good. Maybe if I changed her name she won't act like him...LOL

 

[Jeanne]

Maybe if I changed her name she won't act like him...LOL

That's a good idea

Fel,

You are such a good person and a GREAT friend, you deserve to be happy like Ian said (Ian you are so wise )