I just noticed.....

[Russ S]

that someone closed a thread in the round room. This confuses me. I thought the round room was an unmoderated area where pretty much anything goes.
Oh well ..... just goes to show that I really don't know anything .... I guess it's good I'm no longer a moderator here.

 

[robin]

i thought it was unmoded as well and everyone was an equal here regardless of being a member or mod

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

weird is all I can say, if we can;t air our shit here why can we.

Also Russ, sorry your not a Mod anymore!

 

[KelliH]

Guess what? After being up all fucking night last night, I sleep for about 5 hours today, just wake up and what a surprise, more bullshit from you guys. Hey Russ and Robin, you got a problem with this place and the way I run it, you don't like it any longer, please just leave. The same goes for you Wendy. This is just stupid and I'm sick of it. Now you are even causing problems in the fucking Round Room. All of you guys are just antagonizing each other and acting like a bunch of babies. Conor doesn't even act as bad as you are and he's a brat sometimes! He has his moments but then he gets over it and moves on, for crying out fucking loud why can't you people do the same?

 

[Grinning Geckos]

If I had to guess, what need to be said was said. Marcia was trying to make a point to you (Robin)...you read it and responded that you're in no mood to talk. Considering it was mostly for you Robin, I don't think it's bad or curious that it was locked afterwards.

Hell, if you really want to talk about it now you can do it here in this thread. Or give Marcia a call. If you're afraid you might say something to possibly hurt your friendship, I don't doubt Marcia would understand your concern. At least that would be better than the silent treatment...I hate to see this rift among us.

 

[robin]

i actually tried to repliy to marcia but she had already gone off the handle and closed it. but still to close a thread in the round room. i mean you and i can't do that if we have had enough of something.

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

I just thought that this is the place to do whatever, and that if we can't do it here, where can we.

If Marcia and Robin can only work out whatefer here, due to not talking from waht Ive read then where can they?

I don't have a problem about how you run the forum Kelli, if I were a MOD I would be a total ASS, rules are rules and I would kick off, ban or suspend for MINOr infractions, Im just an ass like that.

But Im not a mod so I get to play on the forums and get my warnigns from tiem to time.

 

[robin]

If Marcia and Robin can only work out whatefer here, due to not talking from waht Ive read then where can they?

whatever is going on between me and marcia is not something that should be hashed out here (in public). honestly, it's no ones business but her and mine. if i don't want to talk it means not here or on the phone.

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

cool, then the threads probably should be closed.

 

[robin]

Guess what? After being up all fucking night last night, I sleep for about 5 hours today, just wake up and what a surprise, more bullshit from you guys. Hey Russ and Robin, you got a problem with this place and the way I run it, you don't like it any longer, please just leave. The same goes for you Wendy. This is just stupid and I'm sick of it. Now you are even causing problems in the fucking Round Room. All of you guys are just antagonizing each other and acting like a bunch of babies. Conor doesn't even act as bad as you are and he's a brat sometimes! He has his moments but then he gets over it and moves on, for crying out fucking loud why can't you people do the same?

i think you need to include marcia in this as well.
one thing is this... none of use involved are innocent of anything, as far as what has been said or talked about or started here on this forum, in the round room as well as other places.

is marcia incapable of being part of this? is she excluded for some reason for whatever reason because of her actions as well?
honestly this thread and a couple of others wouldn't have never been started or gone on if marcia didn't start or end or whatever she did.

doesn't she need to be accountable for her actions here as well, just like the rest of us? inside and outside the round room?

why just blame me, wendy and russ?

 

[robin]

cool, then the threads probably should be closed.

no threads in the round room should be closed. aren't we all equal here and isn't this a non moderated area. this part doesn't have to do with the problems me and marcia (well she did close a thread in here) have but just the round room in general. what was this place meant for? and iof we didnt have it. we would most likely be even shittier at each other.

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

true threads in TRR should not be moderated or closed, but IF that thraed that was closed was closed because of the issues with you and Marcia which you even say should be private then that is different. Maybe it was closed to benefit both of you since your airing out should be private and not public.

 

[robin]

true threads in TRR should not be moderated or closed, but IF that thraed that was closed was closed because of the issues with you and Marcia which you even say should be private then that is different. Maybe it was closed to benefit both of you since your airing out should be private and not public.

she has the power to close it. i do not. shouldnt a thread especially in the round room be closed by the administrators not the moderators?

she was fed up and she made the decision to close it, not administration

 

[Grinning Geckos]

She is accountable...she tried to make amends. What more are you asking for? IMO this is a bunch of crap over a few small things that aren't going to mean shit to anyone in the long run.

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

But who says Marcia closed it, maybe one of the other MODS did....

 

[robin]

She is accountable...she tried to make amends. What more are you asking for? IMO this is a bunch of crap over a few small things that aren't going to mean shit to anyone in the long run.

shanti the thing is i do not HAVE a problem with her moderating me. that's not even the issue here.

 

[robin]

But who says Marcia closed it, maybe one of the other MODS did....

ask marcia

 

[dragonflyreptiles]

I did

 

[KelliH]

So she closed a thread, so fucking what. Just leave it alone, please. What if I had closed it? I'm asking for this to stop. Is that possible? You said you wanted some time to cool off, but you're not even giving yourself that time! This situation is making everyone here miserable and it has to stop now. I'm done with it and I mean it.

 

[Grinning Geckos]

Well, I'm not going to be guessing on anything. I just hope Marcia can come state her side of this and you guys can move past this. I think it would be a tragedy to lose a friend (or friends) over something like this. Move past your hurt feelings and see the bigger picture. We're all capable of being so much more than this.