This is sickening that this happened. :main_angry:
What were you thinking doing something so foolish? I sure hope you dont
have any children anytime soon. I dont understand how someone could
be so irresponsible to just put their pet in such danger.
I recently moved 1200 miles, and throughout the ENTIRE drive from louisiana
to virginia, I used enough common sense to use a shoebox and put my gecko
in it, and at the hotel is when I put him in the cage with water and food.
In addition to the worst case scenario, which happened, the contents of this
cage could have been damaged, or the cage may have been damaged...Did
none of these things make you think, "Hey maybe I should secure my cargo?"
I think that perhaps you should give your gecko to somebody willing to actually take care of it or let somebody else make the decision for you on having it put down. You are obviously not responsible enough to do either one.:main_angry: I am sorry if I am coming off like a jerk but this easily
preventable injury just really upsets me. Please, use common sense in
a vehicle and with your belongings.:main_angry:
While I can sympathize with how you feel about this situation, I think perhaps you should go a little easier on her. She's just a kid. I'm actually more miffed at her parents that they weren't the ones who realized what might happen.
The vet said there was nothing he could do..I said should i put the gecko to sleep, he said that was my call to make.
Everybody is attacking her, and it is not going to have a positive outcome, nor will it change the outcome of the obvious tragic situation. While placing the gecko, enclosure and all into the moving van all together was not the best thing to do you have to realize her age. I am sure she already feels horrible that her pet is hurt and she may have to make a difficult decision to let it go.
This is why people, especially people her age, give up on hobbies or things they love and never look back. They get told hurtful things, in this case being an irresponsible owner, or that you hope she doesn't have kids anytime soon? Are you kidding me? That was uncalled for. She did not post here to be critizied. She came to have support and hopefully get some answers or advice on what to do. While the initial post was lacking a lot of information for us to understand, clearly she does not clearly understand what happened.
I understand you are all worried and concerned about the gecko, don't get me wrong. I just don't think this is the best way to handle it. She made a mistake, something everyone does.
Regardless of her age, no one should be attacking her the way they are. I know everyone is thinking of the geckos well being and that is understandable. But at the same time consider the poor girls feelings. She may lose this pet.. that is heart breaking enough to deal with knowing it very possibly could have been prevented let alone having to deal with all the harsh criticisms. Making comments about hoping she does not have children? Come on now, grow up and learn to have respect for people. If she did this TO CAUSE the gecko harm, it would be different. I could understand the anger in that case. However, some people do not think of the harm in certain situations right away. It is something that can happen to everyone. In addition there could have been a number of things that caused her to place them in the truck in their environments, perhaps time constraints?
I am not positive on her age. Noticed someone else say she was young. Assumed that person knew her age.
Look, "kid" she may be, but she said she just moved "back" in with her parents--she can't be much younger than I am and possibly is a bit older--and I've got sense enough to make sure my animals are safe when I move.
As I recall, she also mentioned that she has another gecko. I'm surprised that one is okay.
My advice for her: put the mangled, now paralyzed gecko down. He can't live a good life. He can't live much of a life at all at this point.
And for your second gecko: Be a little more careful. If you can't think of the consequences of your actions, you may need to consider giving it to a new home before you accidentally hurt this one too.
I'm sorry that this happened. Sorry for you, and the guilt you must feel, and also sorry for your gecko. Let this just be a lesson, okay? Hopefully, you've learned and nothing like this will ever happen to an animal in your care again.